It was more than just finding someone to bang. It was to find my wife. It was to find the mother of my children.
They say learn to enjoy the process.
I had fallen in love with the process so much I felt a pang of loss when I asked her to be my girlfriend. No more approaching. It was a loss to be sure. I was giving up a part of my life in exchange for all of hers.
I had practiced game and social skills for over 2 years. It had become such a habit: looking at a girl and evaluating her worthiness as a potential mate and then screwing up the courage to walk up and talk. With about 100 approaches under my belt, I would rate my cold approach skills at a D+. Just barely passable.
But now I was sad because I’ll never be as good as Tyler RSD, and I know I could have been. But then I realized why I had started this journey in the first place. It was so I could have abundance with women, and now I have it. Sure, it’s nothing like the pros, but still, it’s 100 times better than I ever thought possible.
Now it’s time to shift my priorities and refocus my energies. I’ll use the lessons I’ve learned to love my girlfriend and to build a life with her.
These are invaluable skills. I thank the Lord for the opportunities I’ve been given. And now I thank Him for her.
Two years ago I wouldn’t have been able to land her. Two years of growing and maturing and developing has made this possible.
No more searching. No more wondering if she’s out there. She’s right here. In front of me.
I know it doesn’t stop when you get married.
But for now, I guess I won the game.
The downside of learning game as Christian is no premarital sex. Every approach was with the intent to marry, not to lay. I’ve passed up quite a few good looking girls simply because I knew within a short time I would never marry them. Were I irreligious I would certainly use them and lose them, so I guess for their sake, it wasn’t all bad.